Sex, Sexual Intercourse, "It", etc., Is it still about what's important. Rating Options

[BamBamBoogie]

So I've been ruminating over the topic of sex. While doing so, I realized that I, along with many others, have had some type of sexual relations without having any strong feelings. So here are my questions:

Is sex all its cracked up to be?

Do people still have sex for the right reasons? (Childbirth, Love, etc.)

Is abstinence a good way to go, or should you get some experience so you dont suck when you get married?

Just a few questions, but I may think of more questions along the way.

[dosomethin888]

I think abstinence is the way to go. If you are scared of not having enough experience for when your married, talk to your fiancee. He/she probable understands too.

I think that sex inside of marriage is for, of course, to make babies, if you want some, but it is also to be with the person you love... for fun too.

Um.. to me, I will not have sex with just anyone. I am planning on waiting until marriage because it is important to me.

Now, see, I get... offended isn't the right word, but I definitely roll my eyes when people talk about sex and love in the same sentence, and in that sort of context. Don't get me wrong, I respect those who choose to do it for their own moral convictions, but think about this: while most creatures have sex just to procreate, humans -- and bonobos, a type of chimp -- are the only creatures who get to have any fun out of it. So how come enjoyment is never considered a "right" reason to have sex?

My thoughts on this got kind of jumbled, I hope I explained that well...

How do you know animals dont just have sex for fun? You know how many dogs I see humping pillows... Lol.