The Aftermath of Friends With Benefits Options

[MrStrife]

Yeah after replying to a topic similar yet different to my situation, I can't stop thinking about it and need to get it off my chest. No, honest, I'm not trying to steal anyone's thunder but I'm just suffering under the rain. I met a chick not too long ago and we agreed to the play the game, no strings attached. It was pretty good while it lasted and damnit, I still want some. But it ended sooner than I wanted because I sort of got attached and was thinking about being serious but it just led to fighting and her crying.

Now she has a new bf and I'm just supposed to be happy with that? Like after everything we been through, I'm just pushed to the side? Don't get me wrong, she is a good friend and I don't think I'm being one, but it's just getting harder and harder to be her friend. I get mad when I hear her doing things with him that I never did and when she chooses him over me. I don't think I'm jealous because of the fact that I didn't think a serious relationship between us would've ever worked out. I slept with another girl while I was sleeping with her and we didn't care. We argue a lot because I feel like giving up on our friendship because the situation just doesn't look like it's going to change.

I want her to be happy, but I'm apparently selfish I guess. What do you think is the best thing for me to do?

[iDecay]

Waiting is a very painful thing to do. Since you guys don't talk so much, you never know if she's changed or if she still likes you. You can put hope that you'll get with the second girl, but don't dwell on it. If things don't go your way, it's just going to make you feel worse.