Sex, Sexual Intercourse, "It", etc., Is it still about what's important. Rating Options

[BamBamBoogie]

So I've been ruminating over the topic of sex. While doing so, I realized that I, along with many others, have had some type of sexual relations without having any strong feelings. So here are my questions:

Is sex all its cracked up to be?

Do people still have sex for the right reasons? (Childbirth, Love, etc.)

Is abstinence a good way to go, or should you get some experience so you dont suck when you get married?

Just a few questions, but I may think of more questions along the way.

[Insurmountable]

Is sex all its cracked up to be? Depends on who your talking to about sex. There are some idiots out there that try pressuring people in to and talk about how amazing it is but if you go into it with that type of mentality, yea your not going to like it more than likely.

Do people still have sex for the right reasons? (Childbirth, Love, etc.) Yes of course, one of my really good childhood friends just got married. She had never kissed her husband until her wedding day and next did anything sexually except on her wedding night and they've wanted a kid since their wedding night and now they are finally pregnant 3 months later.

Is abstinence a good way to go, or should you get some experience so you dont suck when you get married? Its up to you, this decision is purely your own. If you believe that abstinence is the way to go then great! Don't ever listen to other people trying to talk you out of it if you choose to be this way as well. If you honestly believe that you need experience for when you get married that's your decision as well. But don't you think it would be great to get married to someone else that doesn't really have any experience and starting your own sexual chapter so to speak together. You both can try out new things and it can be interesting.

So in the end, its all up to you.