Sex, Sexual Intercourse, "It", etc., Is it still about what's important. Rating Options

[BamBamBoogie]

So I've been ruminating over the topic of sex. While doing so, I realized that I, along with many others, have had some type of sexual relations without having any strong feelings. So here are my questions:

Is sex all its cracked up to be?

Do people still have sex for the right reasons? (Childbirth, Love, etc.)

Is abstinence a good way to go, or should you get some experience so you dont suck when you get married?

Just a few questions, but I may think of more questions along the way.

[dispn0ygonekrazy]

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most of your questions really depend on the person and how they think. People talk about sex all the time, people have sex and people are often insecure about themselves when they have sexual intercourse. For example like you said on your third question, gaining experience before you get married so your man ain't gonna be like well im sure you can think of an outcome. Everyone is different you both could be abstinent and have sex when you're married for your first time and experiment with each other and get better at it.

When you say is sex all its cracked up to be, what do you really mean by that? Sex feels good. But there are times where having sex with someone can create or break a bond. If a person wants to have sex with another person no strings attached but the other ends up having feeling or developing etc.. you get the idea.

There is also many people who live by standards and morals, Having sex for being in love with your partner and for child birth etc. But when you combine sex and reasoning being good or bad reasoning's it's like a whole new contradiction. You're going to end up debating with yourself whether or not your actions will be to either good or bad reasons. Some people crave sex its natural. but are you really going to find a mr. right to please your cravings? THUS why I say everything depends on the person and how they think.