What to do..., when your "fiance" doesnt want to marry you? Options

[Stuckie]

Some of you may know that Im in the army and in Iraq at the moment. But the issue is kinda... yeah. I knew this girl for about 3 years or so. We've been on again off again for all of it. Mostly because of my field of work (A soldier). But I got stationed in Germany around mid July last year, so every time we talked was over the internet. MySpace to be exact. After a few months of messaging and liquor, I proposed to her. Over MySpace. I know its not classy, but I was drunk. And she accepted. So we're still communicating over the internet, and a week before Valentine's Day, I order a bouqet of lilies and a box of chocolate to get sent to her house. The next day I called her to tell her I sent her a gift for Valentine's Day. She told me I shouldn't have done that, because her boyfriend would get upset. So I hang up the phone and try to gather what just happened. I guess its not so much a question, as its more me venting to other random people for feedback. Any comments?

[SuckDickNSaveLiv...]

I know people might not agree with this, but I can totally understand why he proposed to her over the net. Its obvious that he loved the girl, but nothing is guaranteed in his line of work. It's not like they going to let him come back home to propose. There is also the fact that there is no telling when he'll come back home period being a solider and all. If anything, the person that is at fault is the girl for not being woman enough to tell him sooner she was seeing someone else.

I would hope a woman has the decency enough to tell me she playing me, so that I can stop putting effort into the relationship and be done with it. She did so a little too late.