Sex, Sexual Intercourse, "It", etc., Is it still about what's important. Rating Options

[BamBamBoogie]

So I've been ruminating over the topic of sex. While doing so, I realized that I, along with many others, have had some type of sexual relations without having any strong feelings. So here are my questions:

Is sex all its cracked up to be?

Do people still have sex for the right reasons? (Childbirth, Love, etc.)

Is abstinence a good way to go, or should you get some experience so you dont suck when you get married?

Just a few questions, but I may think of more questions along the way.

[brooklyneast05]

1. yeah and no. sex is supposed to be great, and it can be. so i guess in that sense it is all it's cracked up to be to me. i think it's not all it's cracked up to be either in a way though because people spend a lot of time worrying about it. i don't know. depends on who you're doing it with imo.

2. yup, of course people still have sex for love and childbirth. as long as people are still in love and having kids, which presumably will be forever, then some will be having it for the right reasons. although "right reasons" is pretty subjective. any reason can be a right one imo as long as both partners agree on it.

3. either. neither is better than the other i don't think. if you want to have sex have sex, and if you want to save it for someone certain then save it for them. i highly doubt if you marry someone you love and care about deeply and vise versa that they are going to think it's THAT big of a deal if you suck your first time. probably means you made a shitty marriage choice though, so that's too bad.