Coffee Options

[mipadi]

I bought a cup of coffee at a café a few days ago. This simple act is insignificant for most people, but I almost never drink coffee. I visited the café because I’d just picked up an anthology of short plays by Tennessee Williams, and I wanted a quiet place to read; it seemed rude to take up a table and not buy a drink.

As I sat sipping and reading by myself, I thought how coffee always seemed to me to be a sign of maturity. As a kid, I recognized coffee as an "adult drink", just a tiny step down from beer and liquor. During high school, my friend Dan, a year my senior, perpetually carried around a travel mug of the brew. Secretly I viewed it with some suspicion; in my mind, a high school kid was too young to be drinking coffee. But I always put the appropriate age for coffee consumption into the future: even in college, I never felt like I was "old enough" to drink it.

As I sat in the café, reading Williams and drinking coffee, it finally hit me: now, at age 23, I am a mature adult.

Maybe I was always right: as an 18-year-old, perhaps I was too young for both coffee and college. This morning's epiphany reinforced a long-held belief that kids are pushed into college -- and out the other side, into the dreaded "real world" -- far too early and far too fast, before they even really know themselves. What hope do they have to make any real decisions about their futures?

How do you really know you're old enough to drink the coffee?





(True confessions: this is actually cross-posted from my blog. But I thought it was one of my more...interesting entries, so I re-posted it here.)

[King-James]

I am a coffee virgin myself. When I was younger, my parents always told me not to drink coffee because it would stunt my growth. Since I was a really small kid, I figured the last thing I needed was to drink something that would prevent me from getting much taller.

Later on I figured it was a bunch of BS, but I never really had the desire to drink it. Water quenches my thirst just fine. I don\'t need a shot of caffeine in the morning, nor do I want to become an addict. I\'ve been in a Starbuck\'s two times in my life (didn\'t order anything of course). Both times, I felt like I was in a foreign place.

I\'ll probably start drinking coffee sometime in the future, but I doubt I\'ll become a mature adult anytime soon. Who knows though, maybe my first coffee drinking moment will be as profound as yours. I\'ll let you know if it is.



(True confessions: this is actually cross-posted from your blog. But I thought it was one of your more...interesting entries, so I re-posted it here.)