What to do..., when your "fiance" doesnt want to marry you? Options

[Stuckie]

Some of you may know that Im in the army and in Iraq at the moment. But the issue is kinda... yeah. I knew this girl for about 3 years or so. We've been on again off again for all of it. Mostly because of my field of work (A soldier). But I got stationed in Germany around mid July last year, so every time we talked was over the internet. MySpace to be exact. After a few months of messaging and liquor, I proposed to her. Over MySpace. I know its not classy, but I was drunk. And she accepted. So we're still communicating over the internet, and a week before Valentine's Day, I order a bouqet of lilies and a box of chocolate to get sent to her house. The next day I called her to tell her I sent her a gift for Valentine's Day. She told me I shouldn't have done that, because her boyfriend would get upset. So I hang up the phone and try to gather what just happened. I guess its not so much a question, as its more me venting to other random people for feedback. Any comments?

[Realized]

Honestly? Most of you take a whole proposal out of hand.
If the girl loved you truly, she wouldn't care how you did it. She'd just love the fact that you were hers, and vice versa.

Okay maybe you shouldn't of done it on myspace... Maybe it was just pre-deployment jitters... but she had no right to do to you what she did, she could of at the very least told you she moved on.

If you wanted to propose; you could of at least done it over the phone.

Or maybe I'm just one of those girls that don't care about the material... it's just more of the thought that matters

In the end; Sorry for your loss, kick the bitches ass when you get home

Do you know if she even took you seriously in the first place? Army relationships are hecka hard. Two of my closest guy friends are in them, and I absolutely hate the girls they're with... but in the end it's their choice

--err, i better stop before I rant more :x