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Feb 21 2009, 12:15 AM
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So Hubby and I have decided to try for another baby. We had our first son 5 months ago. Obviously I want them close in age. I think it'll be easier to get the baby stuff over around the same time (bottles, diapers). And it'll be nice for them to be close. I think that mostly has to do with the fact that my sister and I are about 17 years apart.
And I'm 24 so I want to have them while I'm still young. And I want at least 2 kids. Maybe even 4. So my question is how many kids do you want and would you rather have them close in age or a few years apart? |
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Feb 21 2009, 12:19 AM
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![]() Amberific. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
I've always said that I want three, but if I have twins -- which is highly likely -- I'm gonna stop there. If I end up having three, I want them spaced a little bit apart, like two to three years.
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Feb 21 2009, 03:34 PM
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I've always said that I want three, but if I have twins -- which is highly likely -- I'm gonna stop there. If I end up having three, I want them spaced a little bit apart, like two to three years. The one thing i've heard about having kids three years apart is that they don't always get along. I know two people who have siblings that are three years apart and they don't get a long at all, and one kid put it like this, he said that you don't know whether to consider them close your age or your little sibling. |
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Feb 21 2009, 04:42 PM
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![]() DDR \\ I'm Dee :) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
^x2 Um. Ew.
The one thing i've heard about having kids three years apart is that they don't always get along. I have two brothers, one is three years older than me and the other is four years older than me and we are pretty close. I'm not as close with the eldest, because he doesn't live near me and is going through some personal stuff. But my other brother and I get along really well. He isn't mushy mushy, but he cares about me a lot and I care about him a lot. I think the environment that siblings grow up in effects their relationships a lot. I grew up in a really bad environment, which kind of forced me to get along with my brothers because we needed each others support./endneedlessrant |
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Feb 23 2009, 05:32 AM
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Feb 23 2009, 08:33 PM
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lovefooled Kids. Feb 21 2009, 12:15 AM

Beenly QUOTE(karmakiller @ Feb 23 2009, 05:33 PM... Feb 23 2009, 08:35 PM
manny-the-dino I'd like to have two kids: one boy & one g... Feb 21 2009, 05:33 PM
shannlovin hi there :D! i think i would want four, like m... Feb 21 2009, 12:23 AM
9001 16 kids. It's not too extreme, is it? My gre... Feb 21 2009, 12:27 AM
Beenly QUOTE(9001 @ Feb 20 2009, 09:27 PM) 16 ki... Feb 21 2009, 03:59 PM
Tomates QUOTE(Beenly @ Feb 21 2009, 03:59 PM) i w... Feb 21 2009, 04:40 PM
9001 QUOTE(Tomates @ Feb 21 2009, 03:40 PM) on... Feb 23 2009, 01:18 AM
towntown2 0-2 children is what I see myself having. Feb 21 2009, 10:54 AM
RCKstarh i want 2 or 3 kids. nd i would want them spaced ap... Feb 21 2009, 02:08 PM
karmakiller I don't know. I think it depends on how the pr... Feb 21 2009, 02:42 PM
coconutter i don't want any kids
maybe 1 if i really fee... Feb 21 2009, 08:44 PM
smash i'm just gonna start with one and see how that... Feb 22 2009, 01:54 AM
me1issaaaa Boyfriend and I discuss this pretty often. We woul... Feb 22 2009, 06:34 PM
paperplane That shit freaks me the f*ck out. Feb 22 2009, 07:38 PM
BOSS im not sure how many i want, but i think i will ha... Feb 22 2009, 07:52 PM
Smarmosaur definitely want 4! want my first to be a boy, ... Feb 22 2009, 08:40 PM
lovefooled Siblings who are born under a year apart are calle... Feb 23 2009, 01:15 AM
Beenly Well, when I'm at the appropriate time and age... Feb 23 2009, 06:57 AM![]() ![]() |