Should i just get over him? Options

[cloudcandy]

I asked this question before in the past about this guy that i've liked but here's a little detail i forgot to add in, okay well just in case some of you don't know my situation, there's this guy who i liked since last year May and before i liked him, he would stare at me all the time and then i eventually started to like him and i finally told him on msn that i liked him and at first he didn't believe me then he told me he had a gf. but after that, he would still stare at me and he started to act fidgety whenever i would pass by him.he even talked to me on msn after the incident i asked some ppl that knows him if he has a gf and they said they highly doubt that. okay i'm not being racist or anything but he's indian and i'm black and i heard they can't date out of their race or religion so i was wondering if that's why he said he had a g.f, or maybe he just panicked? didn't take me seriously? what do you guys think? should i just get over him?

[libertie]

It kinda seems to me like if he liked you, he would've told you up front when you made your confession. If he didn't, even if he does like you he had a good (or maybe not good, who knows) reason for not saying so. Either way, if you've told him you like him then you've literally done all you can do in this situation and the best thing to do is to just move on. If he comes to you eventually and says he does like you, then that's great, but chances are if you wait around for that by the time he finally does come forward you might not feel the same way anymore. I just say don't waste time thinking about it, you'll just make yourself miserable.