He cheated.., please help me out Options

[CO0KiE]

Hey, my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 15 months. (One year and three months in February) But just a few days ago (Sunday) I found out that he had been cheating on me FOR TEN MONTHS! TEN! Those months, those times that we spent together, everything, he was sharing. He was with another girl. I knew who she was. He told me that he didn't even like her back then. And I asked him again, why would he do that? Why? Especially if he wasn't even attracted to her? And he said he didn't know how he felt towards her, and he didn't want to tell me. He doesn't want me to leave. I think I'm giving him a second chance. But I don't trust him at all anymore. I just... my heart hurts so bad. I have never been betrayed like this before. By my very best friend... He keeps saying that heloves me, but... you don't do this to someone you love. he said that it just happened, and frankly, i don't think anything "just happens". He said he didn't even want it. FOR TEN MONTHS! HE DIDN'T WANT IT ?! BUT HE NEVER LEFT HER! That stupid bitch knew that I was his girlfriend too. They used to always hang out, and it made me unconfortable, so he said he'd stop hanging with her so much, but little did I know, he would still go and see her. We started going out November 2007, and on January 9, my birthday we told each other we love each other. He met her in December 2007. And in January, the beginning of the month or so, he started to see her as well. THAT'S NOT LOVE! YOU DON'T LOVE SOMEONE and hurt them like this. He tore my heart out... He knows he doesn't deserve a second chance, but he still wants one. He needs me. I need him. But I'm just afraid of the pain again. Nothing's the same anymore. I don't wear anything he ever got me. I don't want to see the pictures of the two of us. I'm so suspicious of him. I've lost my appetite. I haven't eaten at all for two days now. He said he doesn't know why he started to see her, he was "curious".

Someone please talk to me. It just doesn't make sense. He broken everything... He lied from the beginning...

[Rachel]

Damn girl, have some self-respect. The man has cheated on you for over HALF of your so-called wonderful relationship. You deserve more than some half-a-man-mother-f*cker who can't keep it in his pants. IDGAF if he is your "rock", he obviously wasn't feelin the same if he strayed and kept it up for 10 WHOLE MONTHS. I mean come on now, how can you even fathom letting him stick around? Why? So he can be good for a few months, meet some other slut (or perhaps return to slut #1) and start it all up again?? Jesus, you are only 17. Life goes on after high school relationships. There are plenty of other guys out there who will love and care about you enough to not cheat, plus they probably have bigger dicks.

(PS speaking from experience, and yes, all the others have had bigger dicks and better sexy time, not to mention better loving in general).

[CO0KiE]

Damn girl, have some self-respect. The man has cheated on you for over HALF of your so-called wonderful relationship. You deserve more than some half-a-man-mother-f*cker who can't keep it in his pants. IDGAF if he is your "rock", he obviously wasn't feelin the same if he strayed and kept it up for 10 WHOLE MONTHS. I mean come on now, how can you even fathom letting him stick around? Why? So he can be good for a few months, meet some other slut (or perhaps return to slut #1) and start it all up again?? Jesus, you are only 17. Life goes on after high school relationships. There are plenty of other guys out there who will love and care about you enough to not cheat, plus they probably have bigger dicks.

(PS speaking from experience, and yes, all the others have had bigger dicks and better sexy time, not to mention better loving in general).

His privates don't matter to me.. What matters is him.. I know, I'm only 17, yaddayadda, but there's no age for love. You can learn to love at any age. The pain doesn't lessen. The pain doesn't fade or go away. Just because I'm 17 doesn't mean I should just not give a damn.. It hurts. And.. a relationship means nothing without trust.. he said he's going to prove to me that he cares and that he'll earn my trust back little by little..

[Stuckie]

His privates don't matter to me.. What matters is him.. I know, I'm only 17, yaddayadda, but there's no age for love. You can learn to love at any age. The pain doesn't lessen. The pain doesn't fade or go away. Just because I'm 17 doesn't mean I should just not give a damn.. It hurts. And.. a relationship means nothing without trust.. he said he's going to prove to me that he cares and that he'll earn my trust back little by little..

And you answered your own question