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Crossing the Line
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post Jan 26 2009, 07:26 AM
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For the sake of boredom, conversation and an attempt to combine a bunch of different topics...

I understand that my approach to relationships and friendships may differ greatly from yours, maybe not. Either way, at what point does an opposite-gender friendship become a potential intimate relationship?

Is it worth it?

Your significant other is, ultimately, your best friend, so would such a friendship make for a better relationship?

Do you have one friend (of the opposie sex) in your life that you could see yourself with?

 
 
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post Jan 28 2009, 01:10 PM
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QUOTE(WarMachine @ Jan 26 2009, 08:26 AM) *
I understand that my approach to relationships and friendships may differ greatly from yours, maybe not. Either way, at what point does an opposite-gender friendship become a potential intimate relationship?

Is it worth it?

Your significant other is, ultimately, your best friend, so would such a friendship make for a better relationship?

Do you have one friend (of the opposie sex) in your life that you could see yourself with?


I don't believe that men and women can truly be friends without first going through feelings for the other person. They dont have to act on them, but they will get them. The opposite gender relationship crosses the line when both parties act on hormones or on their feelings. Of course, if both friends are single, there's no problem and you can bounce back. But when you're in a relationship, it highlights all the good qualities of your male friend.
 
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post Jan 29 2009, 02:00 PM
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QUOTE(loveneko @ Jan 28 2009, 01:10 PM) *
I don't believe that men and women can truly be friends without first going through feelings for the other person. They dont have to act on them, but they will get them. The opposite gender relationship crosses the line when both parties act on hormones or on their feelings. Of course, if both friends are single, there's no problem and you can bounce back. But when you're in a relationship, it highlights all the good qualities of your male friend.



I agree with this to a point
cause you can be friends with another person with out exactly having feelings for them.
not to be confused with an acquaintance which is someone you jsut acknoledge.
but friends don't exactly have feelings for each other i mean they care bout each other and look out for each other and all but as time passes then the feelings kick in

somethin like that
i guess it jus depends on what you mean by feelings
 

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WarMachine   Crossing the Line   Jan 26 2009, 07:26 AM
Comptine   A lot of people say that females and males cannot ...   Jan 27 2009, 12:47 AM
gojira   rambling. this makes me think of musiq soulchild -...   Jan 27 2009, 02:29 AM
WarMachine   QUOTE(gojira @ Jan 27 2009, 10:29 AM) ram...   Jan 27 2009, 02:42 AM
gojira   QUOTE(WarMachine @ Jan 27 2009, 02:42 AM)...   Jan 27 2009, 03:10 AM
KINGdinguhling   QUOTE(gojira @ Jan 27 2009, 12:10 AM) why...   Jan 27 2009, 03:14 AM
WarMachine   QUOTE(gojira @ Jan 27 2009, 11:10 AM) why...   Jan 27 2009, 06:13 AM
KINGdinguhling   QUOTE(WarMachine @ Jan 27 2009, 03:13 AM)...   Jan 27 2009, 01:59 PM
loveneko   QUOTE(WarMachine @ Jan 26 2009, 08:26 AM)...   Jan 28 2009, 01:10 PM
Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto   QUOTE(loveneko @ Jan 28 2009, 01:10 PM) I...   Jan 29 2009, 02:00 PM
hi-C   I don't know, I think men and women can be fri...   Jan 28 2009, 06:57 PM
Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto   I think that the more time you spend with someone ...   Jan 29 2009, 01:48 PM
manny-the-dino   QUOTE(Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto @ Jan 29 ...   Jun 23 2009, 08:17 PM
towntown2   I have three best guy friends, and I will talk abo...   Jan 29 2009, 10:06 PM
kryogenix   Dating someone completely stranger can be fun, des...   Jan 29 2009, 10:12 PM
WarMachine   In hindsight; this is a total dice roll. I'm n...   Jun 23 2009, 09:47 AM
ley   QUOTE(WarMachine @ Jan 26 2009, 07:26 AM)...   Jun 23 2009, 10:38 AM
hypnotique   I don't do "f*ckbuddies" nor do i al...   Jun 23 2009, 11:45 AM


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