We walk alone, we walk alone, Off to college! Options

[jaynicesuever]

Sorry for the Topic Title, UnderOath is stuck in my head.


Well here's my deal-io:

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year in a half by now, and unfortuantly I'm a Senior and he's a Junior (in high school). Thing is I'll be going off to college which wouldn't be too far from where I live, I'm taking the cheap way out of dorms and staying at my house. He's so uneasy about it, I've tried talking to him about it because we both know it's going happen. Now I'm not saying I'm putting my life on hold for him, because that's just stupid. What bugs me is that he keeps avoiding the 'college' topic whenever we have the chance to talk about it, its getting on my nerve and he's being very immature about everything. I understand it's going to be hard without us pda-ing 24/7 at school anymore, but he expects me too take a year off before going to college (which were my original plans before I really thought about it) But I can't just not do anything for one year and wait for him to get out of school everyday. We don't even have plans on going to the same college. I think we could make this relationship work if he'd just listen, yeah dig? Idk what's your opinion?

[loveneko]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year in a half by now, and unfortuantly I'm a Senior and he's a Junior (in high school). Thing is I'll be going off to college which wouldn't be too far from where I live, I'm taking the cheap way out of dorms and staying at my house. He's so uneasy about it, I've tried talking to him about it because we both know it's going happen. Now I'm not saying I'm putting my life on hold for him, because that's just stupid. What bugs me is that he keeps avoiding the 'college' topic whenever we have the chance to talk about it, its getting on my nerve and he's being very immature about everything. I understand it's going to be hard without us pda-ing 24/7 at school anymore, but he expects me too take a year off before going to college (which were my original plans before I really thought about it) But I can't just not do anything for one year and wait for him to get out of school everyday. We don't even have plans on going to the same college. I think we could make this relationship work if he'd just listen, yeah dig? Idk what's your opinion?

You have to go to college whether he can deal with it or not, he'll be there in a year and beside, college kids have way more time off than HS kids, so PDA in the streets and not in front of your locker. Tell him you'll be with him every moment that you can and if hes allowed to come to your house, tell him to come over all the time. My "bf" and I won't be going to college together, he still has to get out of HS, but he has to deal with it and Im going to another state. He knows I love him, and I wouldn't cheat (well, lol) at least not sexually he can come see me. I always drop things to be with him even now I do that, so your bf will understand if you put him up on a thrown.