He cheated.., please help me out |
 Jan 27 2009, 09:12 PM
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 i call it love<333  Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 448,479  |
Hey, my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 15 months. (One year and three months in February) But just a few days ago (Sunday) I found out that he had been cheating on me FOR TEN MONTHS! TEN! Those months, those times that we spent together, everything, he was sharing. He was with another girl. I knew who she was. He told me that he didn't even like her back then. And I asked him again, why would he do that? Why? Especially if he wasn't even attracted to her? And he said he didn't know how he felt towards her, and he didn't want to tell me. He doesn't want me to leave. I think I'm giving him a second chance. But I don't trust him at all anymore. I just... my heart hurts so bad. I have never been betrayed like this before. By my very best friend... He keeps saying that heloves me, but... you don't do this to someone you love. he said that it just happened, and frankly, i don't think anything "just happens". He said he didn't even want it. FOR TEN MONTHS! HE DIDN'T WANT IT ?! BUT HE NEVER LEFT HER! That stupid bitch knew that I was his girlfriend too. They used to always hang out, and it made me unconfortable, so he said he'd stop hanging with her so much, but little did I know, he would still go and see her. We started going out November 2007, and on January 9, my birthday we told each other we love each other. He met her in December 2007. And in January, the beginning of the month or so, he started to see her as well. THAT'S NOT LOVE! YOU DON'T LOVE SOMEONE and hurt them like this. He tore my heart out... He knows he doesn't deserve a second chance, but he still wants one. He needs me. I need him. But I'm just afraid of the pain again. Nothing's the same anymore. I don't wear anything he ever got me. I don't want to see the pictures of the two of us. I'm so suspicious of him. I've lost my appetite. I haven't eaten at all for two days now. He said he doesn't know why he started to see her, he was "curious".
Someone please talk to me. It just doesn't make sense. He broken everything... He lied from the beginning... |
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Jan 27 2009, 09:59 PM
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If you give him a second chance, all your gonna do is get jealous and upset all the time he's with another girl. You can forgive him but your not gonna forget what he did, its gonna stay in the back of your mind all the time that itll bring up fights.. once a cheater always a cheater.yeah?
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CO0KiE He cheated.. Jan 27 2009, 09:12 PM
9001 How old are you? Your age is the only thing preve... Jan 27 2009, 09:15 PM CO0KiE I'm 17 Jan 27 2009, 09:25 PM espressive QUOTE(CO0KiE @ Jan 27 2009, 08:12 PM) He ... Jan 27 2009, 09:30 PM
CO0KiE QUOTE(espressive @ Jan 27 2009, 09:30 PM)... Jan 27 2009, 09:36 PM espressive QUOTE(CO0KiE @ Jan 27 2009, 08:36 PM) She... Jan 27 2009, 09:53 PM CO0KiE QUOTE(espressive @ Jan 27 2009, 09:53 PM)... Jan 27 2009, 10:04 PM Ekay Love is a very fickle word. 15 months is a long ti... Jan 27 2009, 09:47 PM CO0KiE QUOTE(Ekay @ Jan 27 2009, 09:47 PM) Love ... Jan 27 2009, 10:02 PM CO0KiE QUOTE(roxyy @ Jan 27 2009, 09:59 PM) If y... Jan 27 2009, 10:02 PM Ekay You know if you do decide to go with that route, i... Jan 27 2009, 10:08 PM CO0KiE QUOTE(Ekay @ Jan 27 2009, 10:08 PM) You k... Jan 27 2009, 10:16 PM Ekay Dude. Word. Jan 27 2009, 10:13 PM espressive QUOTE(CO0KiE @ Jan 27 2009, 09:04 PM) Wha... Jan 27 2009, 10:19 PM CO0KiE QUOTE(espressive @ Jan 27 2009, 10:19 PM)... Jan 27 2009, 10:24 PM Ekay Alright, if that's what you really want. Make ... Jan 27 2009, 10:23 PM CO0KiE QUOTE(Ekay @ Jan 27 2009, 10:23 PM) Alrig... Jan 27 2009, 10:28 PM Ekay That's true. People do deserve second chances.... Jan 27 2009, 10:41 PM emberfly You would have to be really really stupid to accep... Jan 27 2009, 11:38 PM Stuckie Here is the best advice you can ever get on bad re... Jan 28 2009, 11:26 AM loveneko My boyfriend of two years cheated on me 3 months i... Jan 28 2009, 12:47 PM emberfly QUOTE(loveneko @ Jan 28 2009, 11:47 AM) I... Jan 28 2009, 07:54 PM CO0KiE QUOTE(loveneko @ Jan 28 2009, 12:47 PM) M... Jan 31 2009, 01:39 AM shannlovin awh, you don't derserve him at all. you should... Jan 28 2009, 06:42 PM 9001 Give him a week or two. If he slips up at all, du... Jan 28 2009, 07:41 PM Rachel Damn girl, have some self-respect. The man has che... Jan 28 2009, 10:34 PM hypnotique QUOTE(Rachel @ Jan 28 2009, 09:34 PM) Dam... Jan 29 2009, 01:37 AM CO0KiE QUOTE(Rachel @ Jan 28 2009, 10:34 PM) Dam... Jan 31 2009, 01:43 AM Stuckie QUOTE(CO0KiE @ Jan 31 2009, 12:43 AM) His... Jan 31 2009, 10:53 AM AyeVickaye Why stay with somebody that hella hurt you and lie... Jan 29 2009, 11:20 PM fad3d it's a simple leave them. you can do better. Feb 1 2009, 10:41 PM sweetdreamsx3 15 months - 10 months that he cheated on you = you... Feb 12 2009, 04:56 PM Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto honestly he ain't worth ya time if he really c... Feb 12 2009, 06:52 PM vietbabiiix3 He's just an ass.. Move on =[ Feb 14 2009, 11:31 PM BOSS you should invest your time into another person. m... Feb 15 2009, 05:56 AM illmortal QUOTE(CO0KiE @ Jan 27 2009, 09:12 PM) Hey... Feb 15 2009, 10:16 AM Stuckie ^Sad but true. Its like read into my adolescent mi... Feb 18 2009, 11:02 AM Impressive You've have officially been chopped and screwe... Feb 18 2009, 12:10 PM ForgetThePast Cookie, I am going through the same thing. I date... Feb 19 2009, 04:53 PM dirtyelbows So I guess you should change your avatar and headl... Feb 19 2009, 05:23 PM atiajay sweety honestly, the best thing u can do right now... Feb 20 2009, 10:58 AM |
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