what do you do when, things change feelings wise? |
 Jan 24 2009, 01:53 AM
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The title and topic description basically say it all, but allow me to clarify:
Say you are in a relationship for a semi decent amount of time, like 4 months or so and you realize that you no longer feel the same way about your significant other. Do you break up right away? Talk it out, maybe come to a mutual consensus about how to go about "working on things"? Pull the disappearing act where you avoid that person? How do you handle it? |
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Jan 24 2009, 02:00 AM
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Imo, the best thing to do is to talk about it. I don't think it's far for the other person to be given the cold shoulder or to be avoided. I wouldn't like that. If you really care about your significant other & want to work things out, try to spark up the relationship; go out on exciting dates, try different things, anything to spark excitement & get those feelings that you once had. I've also heard that spending time apart from someone is good. Try not seeing or communicating with each other for a few days & see what happens. It's suppose to make you "miss" that person & remind you why you're with them. I hope my advice helped. Good luck.
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mytangerine what do you do when Jan 24 2009, 01:53 AM
hi-C That kind of happened to me. We talked about it a... Jan 24 2009, 01:55 AM Comptine If I know for sure I'm not into the person any... Jan 24 2009, 01:55 AM
mytangerine QUOTE(manny-the-dino @ Jan 24 2009,... Jan 24 2009, 02:08 AM Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto QUOTE(mytangerine @ Jan 24 2009, 02:08 AM... Jan 24 2009, 03:10 AM gojira what would you do for a klondike bar? Jan 24 2009, 02:51 AM shannlovin ^ agree.
if you talked about it, then make things... Jan 24 2009, 05:08 PM mytangerine It totally made sense, no worries.
However, we... Jan 28 2009, 02:25 AM loveneko You can be mature and speak about it, OR you can c... Jan 28 2009, 01:05 PM shannlovin awhhhh, i hope your feeling better! i remember... Jan 28 2009, 06:59 PM superstitious QUOTE(mytangerine @ Jan 24 2009, 12:53 AM... Jan 28 2009, 07:35 PM towntown2 I'd talk about it.
Honestly, if you keep it bo... Jan 29 2009, 10:46 PM fad3d my best remedy is talk to your significant other a... Feb 1 2009, 10:43 PM mytangerine Lol guys! We're done! I said that alre... Feb 2 2009, 01:32 AM |
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