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post Jan 22 2009, 10:30 PM
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post Jan 24 2009, 12:05 AM
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1. Try to become better friends with him or her again; it doesn't always work, but it's always worth a try. Bring up conversations with them. Compliment them, be honest with them, tell them what they'd like to hear; don't be rude or obnoxious.
2. Find out the extent of the "separation." If your friend acts just like old times when they're around you alone, then that just means they're showing off to their "new" popular friends.
3. Let them know that you feel they've changed, but don't emphasize it too much. Send you friend the message, then drop it. If they really want to be your friend again, then they will be.
4. Remind them of 'the good times' you've spent together. Evoke all their memories, bring up funny incidents and basically, just chat with them. Catch up on what you might have missed.
5. Moreover, make sure you aren't the one that has changed. If you are, I think you have some serious apologizing to do.
6. Make a new friend. If your old friend is mean, why waste your time trying to be friends with someone who hates you?


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* Most of the time it's obvious if they are slipping away from you, you can most of the time tell by them either ignoring you, not inviting you to social things, or just all around being mean.


Things You'll Need

* A good attitude
* A strong heart
* The ability not to cry over them

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* Never try too hard.
* Don't try to start a fight. Their friends are usually on their side, and they will win.
* Make sure you get the message across that they've changed, but don't make that the only subject you talk about.
 

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heartquasm   .   Jan 22 2009, 10:30 PM
emberfly   No..   Jan 22 2009, 10:44 PM
shannlovin   yeap right infront of my eyes. i lost my best frie...   Jan 22 2009, 10:45 PM
Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto   I watched a friend of mine die and it was probably...   Jan 22 2009, 11:11 PM
shannlovin   QUOTE(Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto @ Jan 22 ...   Jan 22 2009, 11:33 PM
AyeVickaye   ^ dude thats sad :'[ I watched a couple of fr...   Jan 22 2009, 11:23 PM
manny-the-dino   Yes. We were best friends at the time & I didn...   Jan 22 2009, 11:49 PM
gojira   RE: .   Jan 23 2009, 04:03 AM
gojira   1. Try to become better friends with him or her ag...   Jan 24 2009, 12:05 AM
KINGdinguhling   WTF?   Jan 24 2009, 12:12 AM


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