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 Jan 6 2009, 03:34 PM
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I met this girl. We went out 3-4 times. We were dating for 2 months. At first she was more interested in me, but I started to gain interest in her. Then I started catching feelings for her hard. I moved out of state, and it seemed like she was gonna come visit me. Then as I moved she told me in a text that she got back with her ex bf, and got pregnant. Keep in mind we had dinner together 2 days before I moved out of state. We got into a big argument about this, said some really hurtful stuff towards each other, and broke up.
I know this guy is going to hurt her again, because he was abusive to her in the past. I've tried getting over her, but she's on my mind a lot. I haven't contacted her. Oddly enough she's still kept me on her friends list on myspace. I was trying to wait until February to contact her. Mainly because I care if she's ok, and because out of all the people I've dated so far she's made me the happiest. Do you think that's a good idea? |
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Jan 8 2009, 04:57 AM
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Be realistic and get over your feelings for her. Now you need to be a friend if she's in an abusive relationship. If you're able to take matters into your own hands and solve the problem; then do it. If not, you need to let someone know. Before you take any action, talk to her. Get on the same page.
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Jan 8 2009, 02:01 PM
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QUOTE(WarMachine @ Jan 8 2009, 04:57 AM)  Be realistic and get over your feelings for her. Now you need to be a friend if she's in an abusive relationship. If you're able to take matters into your own hands and solve the problem; then do it. If not, you need to let someone know. Before you take any action, talk to her. Get on the same page. |
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dpl313 Idk what to do Jan 6 2009, 03:34 PM
YukkaPukka Yes Jan 6 2009, 03:35 PM shannlovin i don't think you should wait till february... Jan 6 2009, 09:06 PM courtn3y What if she said all that because she might be afr... Jan 7 2009, 04:33 PM Kay- Aw, man it sucks that she's prego. I think it... Jan 7 2009, 04:37 PM lidoxeddie DROP HER! DONT TALK TO HER! IF YOU TALK TO... Jan 8 2009, 04:15 AM
AyeVickaye You guys need to talk and get everything straighte... Jan 8 2009, 07:32 PM |
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