How to become more comfortable with my body, sexually. |
How to become more comfortable with my body, sexually. |
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Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Dec 2008 Member No: 705,765 ![]() |
So I've been dating this guy for 10 months now. I'm still a virgin, but the more I think about it, I'd like to go further with him, possibly or possibly not, sex. This guy means everything to me and there's no one else I'd rather be with. Well, getting to the point. I'm 16, 5'5'' and around 120 pounds. I've never considered myself fat, or overweight, but slowly, I'm starting to realize, as he and I are getting closer, its very hard for me to be comfortable with my body. Every time we try to do something new, I back off. It's a natural reaction for me, and really, I feel bad for him. It's nothing he is doing wrong, it's my own insecurities with myself. It's not that I feel uncomfortable trying these new things, because deep down I really would like to go further with him. I try to push myself to become secure with my body, but for some reason I can't. Any advice?
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![]() AKA RockIt Studios ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 421,809 ![]() |
well first, talk to him. just tell him exactly what you said in your post. he may do or say something to make you feel a little better. he may be more careful with you. or maybe he won't do anything. either way, you need to let him know it's not him, just your few little issues.
i have this problem too, except it starts way before physical relations. i think i'm incapable of trusting or loving anybody. but anyway, my point is i totally understand where you're coming from, and the best you can do is talk to him, and build your self confidence. buy a few revealing tops, some short shorts. soon enough you'll be so used to it. work out, maybe? it really does help. i wish you luck. ![]() |
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