Do you take advantage?, Roar... |
 Dec 24 2008, 10:53 PM
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So my friends and I are having this huge debate, it all started with :
BFF: ok one question BFF: but its BFF: rhetorical me: mm? BFF: WHY DONT GUYS EVER APPRECIATE ANYTHING me: i wish i knew. So I posted it on my MySpace blog, and we started having a debate. Guys seem to think it's the girls, where as it's reversed for us... One of my friends wants numbers on this, so I figured one of the best places to go about this would be cB because a lot of us are opened minded... (okay some, not all.) and I figured they would give honest answers since they don't know my friends or me. Question being : Which gender appreciates things less? Do you think Girls take advantage of guys more often, or guys take advantage of girls? I'm biased considering my past, I would prefer non-biased opinions ^_^ If this didn't make any sense, sorry @_@;; 
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Dec 25 2008, 12:14 PM
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QUOTE(Realized @ Dec 25 2008, 12:43 AM)  Joss, I see what you mean. I agree, but that wasn't the question. It was more like... Person A was giving person B everything they had to give, heart+mind, entirely they were Person B's. But Person B wasn't giving Person A that in return, in return Person B couldn't stop flirting with others... couldn't really give Person A their entire self because Person B was sharing it with everyone. So Person B took advantage of how open Person A was, while fooling Person A that Person B wasn't doing anything wrong.. I think I just confused myself, I hope you understand that  this sounds a lot less like an issue of appreciation and much more an issue of dependency, insecurity, possession, and obsession. get a grip and figure out that relationships, healthy and successful ones, don't turn a single person into your all and everything (or nothing). get it? grow up. |
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Realized Do you take advantage? Dec 24 2008, 10:53 PM
shanaynay I think guys appreciate things less. Dec 24 2008, 11:03 PM Pooonani This isn't really debatable. It's differe... Dec 24 2008, 11:11 PM karmakiller Both. I can name plenty of men that I know who tak... Dec 24 2008, 11:19 PM Joss-eh-lime it can go either way.
usually girls and guys equal... Dec 25 2008, 12:37 AM Realized Joss, I see what you mean. I agree, but that wasn... Dec 25 2008, 01:43 AM Archana ^that is.. EXACTLY what I'm going through. dkl... Dec 25 2008, 10:51 AM mipadi Does it really matter which gender generally gets ... Dec 25 2008, 04:42 PM fad3d that's an easy answer. It's both. Girls ca... Dec 31 2008, 01:46 AM Flakko i agree with faded its vice versa! Dec 31 2008, 01:50 AM brandmantra guys rarely appreciate any good things. Jan 1 2009, 03:57 AM fad3d Oh, I concur. We can appreciate. We just don't... Jan 5 2009, 03:36 PM Realized @NoSex, it wasn't even about me, it was about ... Jan 18 2009, 02:31 AM
gojira yeah, i'm such a crappy person that i do it in... Jan 24 2009, 12:14 AM |
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