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 Dec 8 2008, 06:41 PM
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Today is a weird day at school.
I did an unintentional experiment about self-image. Today i looked decent because i had a new haircut and slimmer jean while i was wearing my typical converse shoe and sleeve. Before that, i was wearing bad jeans and had an nasty Asian afro hair. i looked hideous. with this fresh, new, and clean look, people are noticing me more. my tshirt design was selected to represent this 2008-2009 club tshirt. when i was performing a piano recital in front of everyone, i heard more claps than ever. People actually start talking to me in my classes, joking around, and giving me attentions. My teacher passed by me to say,"hi". All of this happened today.  THIS.IS.SUCH.A.WEIRD.SUPERFICIAL.DAY.EVER. what a world we live in ... Do you ever had a day when you receive more attractions and attentions just because you looked different or better? |
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Dec 8 2008, 06:55 PM
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Sometime around 11th to 12th grade, guys started opening doors for me. I mean, everyone does keep the door open usually when someone is close behind them, but every once in a while I come across a guy who opens the door fully and waits for me to go first.
I'm not one of those bitches who gets insulted at chivalry, but it still feels sort of weird that it happened out of nowhere, and I'm not really sure why. But I'm thinking it has something to do with image. Haven't really noticed any difference with girls/friends/teachers though. I do get a lot more stares when I get a new haircut, like the time I got bangs, but it could just be because I looked so different, not because I looked any better. |
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Dec 8 2008, 07:15 PM
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 Photoartist Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,363 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 399,390 |
QUOTE(Gigi @ Dec 8 2008, 06:55 PM)  I'm not one of those bitches who gets insulted at chivalry, but it still feels sort of weird that it happened out of nowhere, and I'm not really sure why. But I'm thinking it has something to do with image. AY, girls like you make confuse me, 'cause when I'm working with girls I can't decide whether I should open doors for her out of politeness/chivalry or let her open the door herself to respect her independence. |
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Dec 9 2008, 12:48 AM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
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 QUOTE(ArjunaCapulong @ Dec 8 2008, 06:15 PM) AY, girls like you make confuse me, 'cause when I'm working with girls I can't decide whether I should open doors for her out of politeness/chivalry or let her open the door herself to respect her independence. Just say this: SHUT THE f*ck UP YOU DUMB f*ckING c**t IM THE MAN UP IN THIS BITCH AND I FINNA OPEN THE f*ckING DOOR FOR YOU WHORE WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT.*smacks the bitch*  You got to stand your ground son. |
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Whinoa Image Dec 8 2008, 06:41 PM
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all of middle school i was to ... Dec 9 2008, 05:13 PM Whinoa QUOTE(MissUchiha @ Dec 9 2008, 05:13 PM) ... Dec 10 2008, 01:19 AM Just_Dream QUOTE(Whinoa @ Dec 9 2008, 10:19 PM) you ... Dec 10 2008, 09:39 AM Tung ^both of you chill.
QUOTE(Whinoa @ Dec 9 20... Dec 10 2008, 06:13 PM Tung lawl @ hi-C and letsallgethigh. Keep up the conver... Dec 10 2008, 01:03 AM AngryBaby yo did you check out the links? haha Dec 10 2008, 01:11 AM Tung Naw not yet. It's finals week for me, so I hav... Dec 10 2008, 01:14 AM Gigi Uh, bitch much? Dec 10 2008, 01:54 AM hypnotique Ohhh this thread got some in a bad way...
but it... Dec 10 2008, 09:17 AM hypnotique I cannot go to the mall in a hoodie or look remote... Dec 10 2008, 10:58 AM Just_Dream Haha I went to the mall in sweats, my glasses, AND... Dec 10 2008, 12:28 PM ArjunaCapulong MUCH MUCH? Dec 10 2008, 04:46 PM giraffe um pics of whinoa plz Dec 10 2008, 05:00 PM letsallgethigh lol Dec 10 2008, 09:40 PM AngryBaby QUOTE(letsallgethigh @ Dec 10 2008, 10:40... Dec 11 2008, 12:15 AM Gigi That's probably the exact opposite of what he ... Dec 10 2008, 09:41 PM letsallgethigh lol Dec 10 2008, 09:42 PM hypnotique QUOTE(letsallgethigh @ Dec 10 2008, 08:42... Dec 11 2008, 11:21 AM giraffe lol he actually has a nice body + cute face Dec 10 2008, 09:55 PM Whinoa sorry guys. i was joking/messing around because i ... Dec 10 2008, 10:18 PM Tung QUOTE(Whinoa @ Dec 10 2008, 07:18 PM) sor... Dec 10 2008, 10:22 PM greeentea QUOTE(Tung @ Dec 10 2008, 08:22 PM) We... Dec 11 2008, 08:11 PM Tung How are you going to say these things...
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