Love vs. Co-dependency |
 Dec 2 2008, 01:12 AM
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I've been struggling with my self-esteem for about three years now. I've been working on it, and slowly I've been building it. There's this guy I know I'm not ready for, and who isn't ready for a relationship either. We've been together before. He loves me and I used to think I love him, but I have just been told that I may be emotionally dependent rather than in love. I don't really know if that's true, because I feel like I do love him, but if it is, I'm willing to work on this because I really really care about this person, and I want to be in a happy relationship with them someday.
I just need someone to tell me that at least a little part of me loves him, or that I'm not totally JUST dependent. This sounds crazy, I know, but I need help. Thank you. |
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Dec 3 2008, 02:04 AM
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 This bag is not a toy. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,090 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 583,108 |
^Then it sounds to me like you don't have anything to lose by giving it another shot. Maybe let him in on your insecurities this time - if he wants to try to help, let him. It'll make you both feel better.
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Flightlessbird50 Love vs. Co-dependency Dec 2 2008, 01:12 AM
libertie I really think that if others give you their opini... Dec 2 2008, 01:53 AM
Flightlessbird50 QUOTE(libertie @ Dec 2 2008, 01:53 AM) I ... Dec 2 2008, 08:56 AM Castaway i've thought about this too. I worry that i mi... Dec 2 2008, 02:04 AM FreakyFellow my feeling says you love him Dec 2 2008, 06:57 AM shannlovin i think your afraid of being with him. you say you... Dec 5 2008, 07:53 PM |
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