Has this happened to anyone? Options

[cloudcandy]

okay there's this guy that liked me for 2 years and he just recently told me like 3 weeks ago.so we've been talking and we made it official last Tuesday. he was the one who kept asking me when are we going to start a b.f and g.f relationship.He's a really nice guy, he seemed like he really liked me, he would walk me home some days, we would kiss and talk in the stairways after school.then today we had a little fight and then he sent me an e-mail saying that he hasn't had a girlfriend for a long time so he's still into the flirting thing.he says he still likes me a lot but he doesn't want a commitment right now and he still wants to be friends.like I don't know what to think right now.Guys, did you ever like a girl a lot but you didn't want to make a commitment because you were still into the whole flirting thing?

[Archana]

I'm not a guy but I think I have that problem.. I like where I am right now with the guy I like. We flirt and I like the feeling of /wanting/ to be with him, but I know that if we ever officially got together, all the initial magic would be lost. Plus, I'm not ready to "be official" with someone because it is a LOT of commitment. Calling them.. Hanging out.. and even emotionally. It's so much easier just being "friends that like each other."