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 Nov 27 2008, 07:17 PM
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Would it be acceptable for me to go to junior prom with one of my best friend's exes?
I know my friend still has feelings for him and they broke up on good terms (because of school, not because they had problems between them) but they're not together anymore.. He asked me to prom as friends (we're best friends, too) but I don't know if I should go or not. I don't want to hurt my friend but at the same time, her ex is one of my best friends, too, and I DO want to go to prom. I can't just ask her about it because we're not THAT great of friends. I'm friends with her through association--my best friends are friends with her.. so if I upset her, I upset my best friends too. I can't really talk to them about it either because I don't know if I'm way out of line for even considering it. =/ Help? |
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Nov 27 2008, 07:21 PM
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QUOTE(Archana @ Nov 27 2008, 04:17 PM)  Would it be acceptable for me to go to junior prom with one of my best friend's exes? I know my friend still has feelings for him and they broke up on good terms (because of school, not because they had problems between them) but they're not together anymore.. He asked me to prom as friends (we're best friends, too) but I don't know if I should go or not. I don't want to hurt my friend but at the same time, her ex is one of my best friends, too, and I DO want to go to prom. I can't just ask her about it because we're not THAT great of friends. I'm friends with her through association--my best friends are friends with her.. so if I upset her, I upset my best friends too. I can't really talk to them about it either because I don't know if I'm way out of line for even considering it. =/ Help? Then don't go with the guy that you asked you out. If you do, your "friend" will think that her ex broke up with her just to go out with you. Tell the ex that you' already have someone to go with to the dance. EDIT : SO you're in your Junior Year? I think by now, High Schoolers should be more mature and understand these situations, so just tell your friend about the situation, and if she feels okay if you went with her ex to the prom. AND BTW, do you really want to go with her ex to the prom? you don't have to... This post has been edited by ninjaBeenly: Nov 27 2008, 07:24 PM |
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Archana Would this be acceptable? Nov 27 2008, 07:17 PM
Archana Yeah I guess they'd be mature enough but she w... Nov 27 2008, 07:36 PM
ninjaBeenly QUOTE(Archana @ Nov 27 2008, 04:36 PM) Ye... Nov 27 2008, 07:50 PM MissUchiha my advice
if you dont have feelings for him dont ... Nov 27 2008, 10:03 PM RCKstarh i think if u guys are just friends then go with hi... Nov 27 2008, 10:22 PM BanDaSnowman Damn, someone is about to get owned really good. Nov 27 2008, 10:32 PM shannlovin you said that your not as close with her. and your... Nov 28 2008, 02:49 AM |
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