Is this a good idea? Options

[dpl313]

I've been dating this girl for about a month. Everything has been going great. We're a good match for each other. I'm happy being with her and vice versa. I was thinking about getting her a rose or another flower and brining up to her job tomorrow. Do you think thats a good idea?

[applejaxkz]

Sorry it didn't go as well as you thought. To make you feel better I'll tell you a rather embarrassing/hurtful story.:

On valentines day years ago, must have been freshmen year. I had my little McJob going on and I saved up some money to get my, at the time, girlfriend roses. I planned it out so when she would drop by I would meet her out at the car. Well I walked out to her with a bear and roses. Her response I'll never forget. She let out a long exaggerated sigh and said "Not flowers! I already got these today." I asked her who gave her flowers and she replied that it was nobody. And yes I found out that she was cheating on me.

That was the very first time I gave a girl flowers and I'll always remember it. So don't feel bad that it wasn't the response that you were looking for. Women are weird like that....And so are men. We're all just f*cking weird.