Creepers? Sexual harassment? Options

[Tung]

So this morning when I took the public University buses to school, I sat in front of a man I'm guessing in his mid 40's. So he seem like the typical regular man you know. So then the next stop the bus makes, a whole bunch of people came on, and there was this white girl who sat next to him. The first thing when she sat down besides him, the man next to her, his eyes WIDEN. He kept staring at her the entire bus ride, more particular at her breast. I felt so sorry for the girl. I look at the girl's face, and she had the most uncomfortable look ever. Good thing, the man's stop was the next down, and he left. After he left, I said "Dude, did you see that man next to you? He kept staring at you" She goes like "I KNOW! I'm like why did I sit here?!" And we just laughed about it.

So I'm wondering, does this in any way constitute as sexual harassment in any way. Because wouldn't harassment follow the underline definition of making someone feel uncomfortable? I don't know. What do you guys think. I mean, in our work place, you should never make any of your coworkers feel uncomfortable, and if you do, it consitutes as harassment.

[Joanne]

There are different levels of harassment, and I really think this is one of them. I'm with ^ though... poor thing wouldn't be able to do anything about it anyway (except for maybe get up and go someplace else).

My sister sat next to this normal-looking guy on the bus before, and he kept spreading his legs apart so that his knee would touch hers. She purposely rotated her body so that they wouldn't be touching, but he just kept on spreading them. =\

Haha, and this doesn't really relate but I thought it was funny: Once I was standing on the sidewalk outside of a shopping mall, waiting for my parents to pick me up. This totally drugged up dude walks by staring at me, and whispers "I love you". I just kinda looked away, hoping he'd just keep walking, but he just whispered "I love you" again. THEN he went away. LOL

[Tung]

My sister sat next to this normal-looking guy on the bus before, and he kept spreading his legs apart so that his knee would touch hers. She purposely rotated her body so that they wouldn't be touching, but he just kept on spreading them. =\

Yeah, there's a type of philia that goes under this kind of thing. It's like they love to touch other people in like crowded places, especially on the bus. They pretend to go on crowded areas, just to be touched by others near them. I forgot the term. I'm now trying to google it. I learned it in my Human Sexuality class.