Friends With Benefits Options

[MrStrife]

First and foremost, my sincerest apologies to those of you who already read and know where this topic has been prior made.

Well, as for me, I've been friends with this one girl and it's cool. She calls me up whenever she wants to chill and we hang out, have fun, and sometimes we get it on. She told me from the getgo that she didn't want to lead me on and wasn't looking for love, so I agreed and we came up with the "arrangement" (I can't think of a better word).

Thing is recently, I think I got my feelings too deep in this. I'm starting to treat her like my girlfriend and she's having doubts about what we're doing. Like she started crying and told me she thought what we were doing was wrong. I told her I never made her do anything and I'm not going to, just as long as you're happy. Now it's just plain confusing and I don't know the deal with us anymore.

Any advice out there in cB land?

Scratch that, why lie? Would it make me evil if I slept with another girl too?

[BamBamBoogie]

I agree with the people who said be her boyfriend. If she is crying, there is obviously some feelings there. Just say "Hey, Im catching feelings. I know you didn't want us to get to this point, but I can't help it. How do you feel?" Or something like that. Her response will let you know what to do. If she feels the same then you have a hot girlfriend to have sex with, as well as to love lol. If she seems a bit iffy, then you know to move on, otherwise you'll just stress yourself calling her while she's screwing another guy, (or girl if she's into that kinda thing lol) But having a girl on the side will just make the problem into a catastrophy that you don't want and I can almost guarantee something or someone will get cut lol.