stories for the dumped. Options

[teeners4]

so here's my story:

i've dated this guy for 2 years then one day he decides to tell me he needs to be single, although he cares and loves me he needs to be single and is too young to commit to seriously to one person. this i understand, if he needs space, fine. however he still wanted to be friends right away (which i wasn't ready for but fell for anyways) when we did hang out he always brought up inside jokes and moments from our intimate moments and one day before a party he told me that he thought it's never too soon to move on after a break-up, BUT he didn't want me to hook up with anyone that night and neither would he.

fast forward to the night of the party he was hooking up with a girl. i, of course, confronted him told him i did not want to be friends and walked out. i was bawling, but so was he. today, i collected all the items i have of his and returned it to his house. he assured that he still wanted to be friends but i told him i can't, not for awhile, and he started tearing up again.(why did he? i have no idea)

so how long do you wait to be friends again? could i ever be with him again when he is ready to commit? should i give him spacE? or propose that i want to be together again? ahhh

or have i just been clearly dumped but he did it in a nice way?

and what is your story of being dumped? how did you move on? or have you even moved on?

[imperfectionistx]

I pretty much have been through the same thing.
Er, not exactly the same, but similar.

In my situation (I dumped the guy first, after 2 years as well!) the guy will say he wants to be single but still be friends, then he'll fool around, then come crying back to you when you find someone new telling you that YOU are all he REALLY wanted.

I did the same thing you did, dumped all the guys shit at his house and left him for good and never spoke to him again. I don't retain friendships with my exes. They are my exes for a reason.

That being said, I got my life together and found a great boyfriend. My main point is that if your bf did that to you, chances are he is going to do that to more girls (and you AGAIN if you ever give him another chance). Guys like that aren't worth wasting your time on, atleast until they grow up and realize the consequences of their actions.