Friends With Benefits Options

[MrStrife]

First and foremost, my sincerest apologies to those of you who already read and know where this topic has been prior made.

Well, as for me, I've been friends with this one girl and it's cool. She calls me up whenever she wants to chill and we hang out, have fun, and sometimes we get it on. She told me from the getgo that she didn't want to lead me on and wasn't looking for love, so I agreed and we came up with the "arrangement" (I can't think of a better word).

Thing is recently, I think I got my feelings too deep in this. I'm starting to treat her like my girlfriend and she's having doubts about what we're doing. Like she started crying and told me she thought what we were doing was wrong. I told her I never made her do anything and I'm not going to, just as long as you're happy. Now it's just plain confusing and I don't know the deal with us anymore.

Any advice out there in cB land?

Scratch that, why lie? Would it make me evil if I slept with another girl too?

[LittleMissSunshi...]

the question is, do you really want to be with her? do you want her to be your girlfriend?

i really think you should ask her what she wants. tell her that your having feelings and if she starts crying or having doubts that she doesn't want to be in this type of relationship (fwb) then don't be with her. if she does, then you have a girlfriend.. if you want, talk about the other girl you slept with because your relationship with the girl your having feelings for was FWB. cause if you guys are together, and she finds out.. then things go down hill.