Friends With Benefits Options

[MrStrife]

First and foremost, my sincerest apologies to those of you who already read and know where this topic has been prior made.

Well, as for me, I've been friends with this one girl and it's cool. She calls me up whenever she wants to chill and we hang out, have fun, and sometimes we get it on. She told me from the getgo that she didn't want to lead me on and wasn't looking for love, so I agreed and we came up with the "arrangement" (I can't think of a better word).

Thing is recently, I think I got my feelings too deep in this. I'm starting to treat her like my girlfriend and she's having doubts about what we're doing. Like she started crying and told me she thought what we were doing was wrong. I told her I never made her do anything and I'm not going to, just as long as you're happy. Now it's just plain confusing and I don't know the deal with us anymore.

Any advice out there in cB land?

Scratch that, why lie? Would it make me evil if I slept with another girl too?

[gojira]

lol quit while you are ahead. obviously you got feelings in this which wasn't in the agreement at all, and you said you don't see yourself with her? it isn't wrong of either of you to sleep with other people. you can't act like a boyfriend if she doesn't want you like that.