I'm insanely jealous for no apparent reason Options

[MrStrife]

I started dating and can't help but feel angry at the fact that she still talks to her exes. Yeah I understand she can't just diss them like that, but wtheck am I supposed to do? If it's insecurity, then that sucks because I think I'm cool. Well... maybe that's an insecurity by itself. lol. I don't know why I'm jealous.

[absinthe]

well, if you're insanely jealous versus simply jealous, then i'd say that you're well on your way to being whipped (if you're not already there) and have insecurities about your relationship and/or aren't sure about the depth of her feelings for you.

that being said, i personally find it f**king annoying when the people i'm dating talk to their ex's without talking to me about it first. sure, they don't have to justify everything they do just because we're dating, but i think i'd be more unsettled that they didn't have the decency to think of how that would make me feel, or about the impression said actions give.