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[princess2113]

sume parents tell their kids its ok to have sex when their ready.....do u think thats ok??? for parents to like...encourage them to have sex? will u tell ur kids thats ok???

[stryker76]

i wouldnt call it encouragement...that is a kinda onesided statement...but i also kno that my parents told me growing up in which in many ways i still am doin....that if you have sex be responsible about it....i mean they never once told me it was ok to go and just have sex with someone.....that would be wrong...but they also never told me it was a bad thing...but face it....sex isnt bad...well sometimes it can be.....but ill leave that alone. Over the years tho i have formed my own values on the subject of sex.....1. Not until i have found the right person....its a special thing that just shouldnt be thrown away for ne one. 2. If you are responsible enough to have sex(protected or unprotected) then you are responcible and mature enough to handle the consicoinses(sp).....And i also feel that practicing Abstedance until married is kind like wierd i mean when you are married you should plan to be with that person for the rest of you life....now i kno many people arent...but i mean if you do wait and then realize that after waiting that person is how you hoped they would be then what....cuz sex is honestly part of a good relationship....it doesnt have to be a regular thing but if your not comfortable enough to be with that person like that then do you think you should really be married to them???