I'm Into My Friend's BF, yikes! |
I'm Into My Friend's BF, yikes! |
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![]() Mais je ne l'aime pas ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 ![]() |
Of all relationship things for me to talk about, I never thought it would be this. Because I think I've given advice on similar topics. Nevertheless--here is my story:
Guy: C GF and Friend: B Best Friend and confidant: J J, B, C, and I are all friends. We're all pretty close with each other, but I'm closest to C and J. C and B have been together for almost two years now. Their relationship was the model relationship for a while--they were very much in love, and he was the type of boyfriend everybody wanted. The quintissential cool couple who didn't do icky lovey dovey stuff. But B could never shake off her jealous nature--she could only trust a small number of girls around C. I'm one of the very few. Lately, they've been growing apart, or at least complacent. Both J and I noticed that they don't act as if they are as into each other as they once were. Rumors started going around that C and B are over. Even J told me that C supposedly left B because he couldn't stand seeing her jealousy-driven freak outs [emotional ones, not physical freakouts]. I'm in a club with him that meets after school twice a week. During those days, we'd spend around 10 hours together at school. C and I have become close friends. But I'm flirtatious by nature, and I flirt with him--harmlessly at first. I tend to be very touchy with him, hugging him, jumping on him. Today, I went to tackle him and he picked me up and carried me. These are all harmless-looking things, but I'm getting the feeling that to the outsiders, it doesn't look like it. I know I'm doing things that I shouldn't do. Even if he and I really are good friends and he's loyal to B. But I have to tell you, boys and girls of cB, I don't think I can stop even if I want to. Eeek! |
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lol would you want that to happen to you though? could you understand your friend going after your boyfriend, and would be willing to accept it? if you want him, while risking breaking up a friendship, then go for it. that's on you and your morals. if you don't, i suggest you stop your flirtacious ways around him because that's unfair to your friend. i don't know about you, i wouldn't want some girl slobbering over my man, especially if she is my friend, and especially if i claim to trust her.
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