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Is it wrong?, dating one guy, love another
bambamboozle
post Oct 22 2008, 10:17 PM
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I started dating this guy, Guy A, about 3 weeks ago.
Before we started dating I had been with this other guy, guy B, for about 7 months. We never had the title of gf and bf, but we were exclusive and everyone knew it. We're GREAT friends, but he said he started to not like me at the end of the summer, so we decided to just be friends.

Now I'm dating Guy A. He's really into our relationship and he really likes me. The thing is, I'm in love with Guy B. I'm a senior, and Guy A is just a high school boyfriend to me. Nothing serious, but an attempt to get over Guy B.
I like Guy A, I really do, but my heart is with Guy B- and I don't see that changing.
Is it wrong to be with Guy A when I still love Guy B?
I'm still a major part of Guy B's life, but I think he still just wants to be friends.
I don't know. Advice?
 
 
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Chii
post Oct 22 2008, 11:28 PM
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I think you need to get over Guy B first and foremost before getting into another relationship.

I've been in that sort of situation. I was with this one guy that I was on and off with for years. In between I'd date someone else and then cheat with that guy and get back with him just to end it and start the cycle over again. I'm finally over him but I've broken hearts and strung people along the way which isn't something to be proud of.

It's not fair to enter a relationship without anteing up the same amount of yourself.
 

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