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Is it wrong?, dating one guy, love another
bambamboozle
post Oct 22 2008, 10:17 PM
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I started dating this guy, Guy A, about 3 weeks ago.
Before we started dating I had been with this other guy, guy B, for about 7 months. We never had the title of gf and bf, but we were exclusive and everyone knew it. We're GREAT friends, but he said he started to not like me at the end of the summer, so we decided to just be friends.

Now I'm dating Guy A. He's really into our relationship and he really likes me. The thing is, I'm in love with Guy B. I'm a senior, and Guy A is just a high school boyfriend to me. Nothing serious, but an attempt to get over Guy B.
I like Guy A, I really do, but my heart is with Guy B- and I don't see that changing.
Is it wrong to be with Guy A when I still love Guy B?
I'm still a major part of Guy B's life, but I think he still just wants to be friends.
I don't know. Advice?
 
 
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dosomethin888
post Oct 22 2008, 10:32 PM
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I would say, if Guy B said he is over the relationship and he just wants to be friends.. try to get over it too. Just stay friends and hey, maybe in the future you two might actually get back together. But try to get some space.

As for Guy A, It sounds to me like your taking advantage of him. I dont really like the whole idea of a rebound guy. Because if you stay in a relationship with Guy A, and you only like him as a high-school crush, then you may hurt him more than you think.

Anyways, I have to get off this site and study for my midterm I have tomorrow morning!!
 

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