Friends With Benefits Options

[MrStrife]

First and foremost, my sincerest apologies to those of you who already read and know where this topic has been prior made.

Well, as for me, I've been friends with this one girl and it's cool. She calls me up whenever she wants to chill and we hang out, have fun, and sometimes we get it on. She told me from the getgo that she didn't want to lead me on and wasn't looking for love, so I agreed and we came up with the "arrangement" (I can't think of a better word).

Thing is recently, I think I got my feelings too deep in this. I'm starting to treat her like my girlfriend and she's having doubts about what we're doing. Like she started crying and told me she thought what we were doing was wrong. I told her I never made her do anything and I'm not going to, just as long as you're happy. Now it's just plain confusing and I don't know the deal with us anymore.

Any advice out there in cB land?

Scratch that, why lie? Would it make me evil if I slept with another girl too?

[Melissa]

^ I sorta agree with that.

I mean, even though you're technically free to get with someone else in this situation, I wouldn't suggest it. Not if you really like this girl and think there's a possibility that she'll come to her senses. Sleeping with another girl would just make the other girl jealous and everything'll end up one big mess.

Girls are stupid.

[dustbunny]

Girls are stupid.

amen.


iuno, the girl sounds like she's feeling some guilt there maybe? she has either also fallen for you, or, what I think is more likely: has noticed your feelings and is trying to guilt trip you into leaving her alone.