I'm so confused.. Options

[MetalChick77]

ok..so theres this guy, we will call him chris.

Im in college, and I met this guy last year, we clicked and talked a lot..but he had a girlfriend. So obviously, nothing happened but we got along really well and I started to like him.

This school year, I started hanging out with him a lot. We would see eachother a few times a week and we texted all the time. He was still with his girlfriend, but would always mention how many problems they were having. Also, he texted me and told me that he liked me more than just a friend..and he was confused about his girlfriend and he didnt know what to do. I did not advise him because it's his life.. and I didn't want to get into his situation.

I still really liked him, and we were kind of affectionate and would hug all the time. I was really happy and it seemed like everything was going great.

However, he just recently broke up with his girlfriend a few weeks ago. Ever since then, Chris has been not talking to me as much..and I barely see him. We don't really text anymore either, and if we do, he seems colder than usual.

So..I don't know whats going on now..I asked him about it, and he said that everything was fine and that he has just been really busy..but for some reason I don't believe him..

what should i do?

[YDG]

He just broke up with his girlfriend & made a decision he was confused about; he probably needs or wants space to clear his thoughts & figure if he made the right decision by dumping his girlfriend & being around you would just complicate things even more for him.

Agreed. Just give him some space. He will come to you when he's ready. I mean, let him know he can be straight up with you.

[Smarmosaur]

Agreed. Just give him some space. He will come to you when he's ready. I mean, let him know he can be straight up with you.

double agreed.
don't give him too much space, though. he's wanting room, but you have to be there for him. just text him or something saying you know what's going on and that you will always be there for him. i know it's just one of those things you say when you want to be nice, but sometimes it could mean a lot more than just "i'm here for you", ya know?