How Could One Justify Adultery?, Or is it Unforgivable? |
 Oct 5 2008, 09:22 AM
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Marriage is serious business!
Well, it should be viewed that way, at least. How could one justify cheating on their spouse? What situation could possibly permit such an act as 'excusable?' On the other hand, depending on the situation, is it possible for a third party to find some sense of 'right' by knowingly getting involved with a married person? I'd like to hear some responses. It seems like a vague question now, but I'll go into detail a bit more pending the responses I get. |
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Oct 6 2008, 03:36 AM
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Adultery is terrible.
Marriage is a commitment to another person. A promise that you will hold eachothers feelings above all else, that you will always be there for that person FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. I know most people don't go into a marriage thinking "well, if it doesn't work out I can always cheat", but there are other options. Talking, counseling, and if all else fails divorce. Even if you are being cheated on two wrongs don't make a right. Go your seperate ways before you start scrogging some one else. I was always taught that marriage is a sacred union, even if you don't believe in God, at one point in time these people REALLY loved eachother, or really thought they did. Love is still something sacred, right? |
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Oct 6 2008, 03:44 AM
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QUOTE(MissFits @ Oct 6 2008, 02:36 AM)  Adultery is terrible. Marriage is a commitment to another person. A promise that you will hold eachothers feelings above all else, that you will always be there for that person FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. I know most people don't go into a marriage thinking "well, if it doesn't work out I can always cheat", but there are other options. Talking, counseling, and if all else fails divorce. Even if you are being cheated on two wrongs don't make a right. Go your seperate ways before you start scrogging some one else. I was always taught that marriage is a sacred union, even if you don't believe in God, at one point in time these people REALLY loved eachother, or really thought they did. Love is still something sacred, right? Are you married? |
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Oct 6 2008, 05:24 PM
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QUOTE(fameONE @ Oct 6 2008, 04:44 AM) Are you married? No, I'm not married. |
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fameONE How Could One Justify Adultery? Oct 5 2008, 09:22 AM
Archana The difference between a regular relationship and ... Oct 5 2008, 02:21 PM doiink I wouldn't say it's a justification, but a... Oct 5 2008, 02:30 PM
espressive QUOTE(doiink @ Oct 5 2008, 02:30 PM) I wo... Oct 5 2008, 04:20 PM doiink QUOTE(espressive @ Oct 5 2008, 02:20 PM) ... Oct 5 2008, 04:27 PM espressive QUOTE(doiink @ Oct 5 2008, 04:27 PM) is i... Oct 5 2008, 06:23 PM cakedout 1 person gets boring Oct 5 2008, 06:37 PM towntown2 I don't think one can truly justify adultery i... Oct 5 2008, 08:04 PM only-tuesdays I'm a little unsure about this topic. While in... Oct 5 2008, 08:33 PM DoubleJ I mean any normal guy would be like hit that, but ... Oct 6 2008, 01:58 AM only-tuesdays QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Oct 5 2008, 11:58 PM) As ... Oct 6 2008, 02:04 AM DoubleJ QUOTE(only-tuesdays @ Oct 6 2008, 03... Oct 6 2008, 02:14 AM only-tuesdays Right, I understand that completely. For both it... Oct 6 2008, 02:21 AM fameONE I can find justification in this entire situation,... Oct 6 2008, 02:59 AM synkro adultery may be forgivable, but never justifiable.... Oct 6 2008, 04:34 AM fameONE QUOTE(synkro @ Oct 6 2008, 03:34 AM) adul... Oct 6 2008, 04:43 AM only-tuesdays It occurring while deployed is just deplorable on ... Oct 6 2008, 11:35 AM fameONE QUOTE(only-tuesdays @ Oct 6 2008, 10... Oct 7 2008, 03:03 AM brooklyneast05 f**k no it isn't justifiable, what a bunch of ... Oct 6 2008, 11:52 AM DoubleJ ^ Your post went all over the place before coming ... Oct 6 2008, 12:08 PM |
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