How Could One Justify Adultery?, Or is it Unforgivable? Options

[fameONE]

Marriage is serious business!

Well, it should be viewed that way, at least. How could one justify cheating on their spouse? What situation could possibly permit such an act as 'excusable?' On the other hand, depending on the situation, is it possible for a third party to find some sense of 'right' by knowingly getting involved with a married person?

I'd like to hear some responses. It seems like a vague question now, but I'll go into detail a bit more pending the responses I get.

[only-tuesdays]

It occurring while deployed is just deplorable on the husband's part in my opinion. My boyfriend's wife cheated on him while he was in Iraq about this time last year, and on Thanksgiving posted a Myspace bulletin that she was leaving him and getting a divorce. (Without telling him personally first.) It brings out the worst in people I think. She later had the nerve to say she only cheated because he was never around. Though, he was in the army when they married, and she knew full and well he'd be getting deployed again.

I don't know, I guess i have a bit of a double standard in that area. The people who cheat while their spouses are deployed should have their reproductive organs removed with rusty tools in my opinion.