How Could One Justify Adultery?, Or is it Unforgivable? Options

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Marriage is serious business!

Well, it should be viewed that way, at least. How could one justify cheating on their spouse? What situation could possibly permit such an act as 'excusable?' On the other hand, depending on the situation, is it possible for a third party to find some sense of 'right' by knowingly getting involved with a married person?

I'd like to hear some responses. It seems like a vague question now, but I'll go into detail a bit more pending the responses I get.

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I can find justification in this entire situation, but the law cannot. The uniformed code of military justice is unforgiving. I'm as realistic as anyone can ever be, I'm also surprisingly patient when it comes to matters of the heart. I care more about her happiness, and her peace of mind than my own. Plain and simple. It doesn't really matter what I think or how I feel about her. Without a doubt, I hold her in an extremely high esteem.

This realization that she's going through is a battle that only she can fight. She's battling herself one on one and the only support anyone can give her is the support to keep her spirits high. I certainly don't mind serving a specific purpose in her life. When I'm no longer needed, and the connection between us is forceably broken, then I'll be nothing more than a memory; a beacon of light during one of her life's storms.

To bring the issue home...

Time to speak my peace and make a b-line to the exit.

Just because I've added complication to her life doesn't mean this situation should be more complicated than what it is, and it certainly doesn't mean she can't talk to me about it. The same respect she's given me will be reciprocated.