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How Could One Justify Adultery?, Or is it Unforgivable?
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post Oct 5 2008, 09:22 AM
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Marriage is serious business!

Well, it should be viewed that way, at least. How could one justify cheating on their spouse? What situation could possibly permit such an act as 'excusable?' On the other hand, depending on the situation, is it possible for a third party to find some sense of 'right' by knowingly getting involved with a married person?

I'd like to hear some responses. It seems like a vague question now, but I'll go into detail a bit more pending the responses I get.
 
 
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post Oct 6 2008, 01:58 AM
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I mean any normal guy would be like hit that, but any guy with the least bit of decency wouldn't. You are basically taking advantage of a situation that is very sketchy if you do. I definitely wouldn't want to be caught up in all of that baby mama drama if I were you, and knowing the type of chill guy that you are, I know that that is the last thing that you want on your plate. I mean if later on down the line i.e. a few days after it has blown over, and she is into it, then go for it.

As far as adultery goes: I definitely think that it is justifiable. It is justifiable under certain grounds though. Some people feel that just emotionally connecting with someone is cheating, so they go ahead and cheat back. If I were married to a woman that cheated, I wouldn't necessarily cheat to get back at her, but I would find another way to go about my revenge.

To me the only time adultery is unforgivable, is when passing on a disease, or false parenthood. Other than that, all adultery is forgivable.
 
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post Oct 6 2008, 02:04 AM
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QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Oct 5 2008, 11:58 PM) *
As far as adultery goes: I definitely think that it is justifiable. It is justifiable under certain grounds though. Some people feel that just emotionally connecting with someone is cheating, so they go ahead and cheat back.


That said, I'd rather someone cheat on me physically every single night than emotionally cheat on me. As long as they were coming home to me I'd be alright.
 
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post Oct 6 2008, 02:14 AM
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QUOTE(only-tuesdays @ Oct 6 2008, 03:04 AM) *
That said, I'd rather someone cheat on me physically every single night than emotionally cheat on me. As long as they were coming home to me I'd be alright.

Right and no offense, but that is something that 90 percent of women say. Men and women are totally different on this issue. A man can't stand it if a woman cheats because he is gonna start thinking:

Am I too cheap

Am I not hitting it right

What does this n*gga have that I don't....
 

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fameONE   How Could One Justify Adultery?   Oct 5 2008, 09:22 AM
Archana   The difference between a regular relationship and ...   Oct 5 2008, 02:21 PM
doiink   I wouldn't say it's a justification, but a...   Oct 5 2008, 02:30 PM
espressive   QUOTE(doiink @ Oct 5 2008, 02:30 PM) I wo...   Oct 5 2008, 04:20 PM
doiink   QUOTE(espressive @ Oct 5 2008, 02:20 PM) ...   Oct 5 2008, 04:27 PM
espressive   QUOTE(doiink @ Oct 5 2008, 04:27 PM) is i...   Oct 5 2008, 06:23 PM
cakedout   1 person gets boring   Oct 5 2008, 06:37 PM
towntown2   I don't think one can truly justify adultery i...   Oct 5 2008, 08:04 PM
only-tuesdays   I'm a little unsure about this topic. While in...   Oct 5 2008, 08:33 PM
DoubleJ   I mean any normal guy would be like hit that, but ...   Oct 6 2008, 01:58 AM
only-tuesdays   QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Oct 5 2008, 11:58 PM) As ...   Oct 6 2008, 02:04 AM
DoubleJ   QUOTE(only-tuesdays @ Oct 6 2008, 03...   Oct 6 2008, 02:14 AM
only-tuesdays   Right, I understand that completely. For both it...   Oct 6 2008, 02:21 AM
fameONE   I can find justification in this entire situation,...   Oct 6 2008, 02:59 AM
MissFits   Adultery is terrible. Marriage is a commitment to ...   Oct 6 2008, 03:36 AM
fameONE   QUOTE(MissFits @ Oct 6 2008, 02:36 AM) Ad...   Oct 6 2008, 03:44 AM
MissFits   QUOTE(fameONE @ Oct 6 2008, 04:44 AM) Are...   Oct 6 2008, 05:24 PM
synkro   adultery may be forgivable, but never justifiable....   Oct 6 2008, 04:34 AM
fameONE   QUOTE(synkro @ Oct 6 2008, 03:34 AM) adul...   Oct 6 2008, 04:43 AM
only-tuesdays   It occurring while deployed is just deplorable on ...   Oct 6 2008, 11:35 AM
fameONE   QUOTE(only-tuesdays @ Oct 6 2008, 10...   Oct 7 2008, 03:03 AM
brooklyneast05   f**k no it isn't justifiable, what a bunch of ...   Oct 6 2008, 11:52 AM
DoubleJ   ^ Your post went all over the place before coming ...   Oct 6 2008, 12:08 PM


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