How Could One Justify Adultery?, Or is it Unforgivable? Options

[fameONE]

Marriage is serious business!

Well, it should be viewed that way, at least. How could one justify cheating on their spouse? What situation could possibly permit such an act as 'excusable?' On the other hand, depending on the situation, is it possible for a third party to find some sense of 'right' by knowingly getting involved with a married person?

I'd like to hear some responses. It seems like a vague question now, but I'll go into detail a bit more pending the responses I get.

[DoubleJ]

I mean any normal guy would be like hit that, but any guy with the least bit of decency wouldn't. You are basically taking advantage of a situation that is very sketchy if you do. I definitely wouldn't want to be caught up in all of that baby mama drama if I were you, and knowing the type of chill guy that you are, I know that that is the last thing that you want on your plate. I mean if later on down the line i.e. a few days after it has blown over, and she is into it, then go for it.

As far as adultery goes: I definitely think that it is justifiable. It is justifiable under certain grounds though. Some people feel that just emotionally connecting with someone is cheating, so they go ahead and cheat back. If I were married to a woman that cheated, I wouldn't necessarily cheat to get back at her, but I would find another way to go about my revenge.

To me the only time adultery is unforgivable, is when passing on a disease, or false parenthood. Other than that, all adultery is forgivable.

[only-tuesdays]

As far as adultery goes: I definitely think that it is justifiable. It is justifiable under certain grounds though. Some people feel that just emotionally connecting with someone is cheating, so they go ahead and cheat back.

That said, I'd rather someone cheat on me physically every single night than emotionally cheat on me. As long as they were coming home to me I'd be alright.