How Could One Justify Adultery?, Or is it Unforgivable? Options

[fameONE]

Marriage is serious business!

Well, it should be viewed that way, at least. How could one justify cheating on their spouse? What situation could possibly permit such an act as 'excusable?' On the other hand, depending on the situation, is it possible for a third party to find some sense of 'right' by knowingly getting involved with a married person?

I'd like to hear some responses. It seems like a vague question now, but I'll go into detail a bit more pending the responses I get.

[towntown2]

I don't think one can truly justify adultery in a committed relationship.
Having a commitment means giving someone else your word. Giving that person the promise that you will stay faithful.

When you cheat, that's going against your word.
It's pretty much saying that your word has little value.

But then again, the world is not black and white. There are shades of grey that need to be considered when talking about relationships. While each one is different, however, cheating is still a terrible thing to do.