girlfriend troubles Options

[clahky]

I've been dating this girl for over 2 years. Ever since i met her she's been amazing, shes the one girl i want to be with for the rest of my life. For a bit of time, she's been asking me if im "hurting" her and i can't lie to her because i love her too much. A long time ago i looked at other girls naked, not for a while now, and the other day she got me to admit that i occasionally check out other girls at school. I go to college and i sort of subconsciously look at other girls, i dont necessarily check them out and think about their bodies, i just look sometimes without noticing. Now she asks me everyday if ive hurt her, and i cant help but say yes because i see a girl walking down the street and i might acknowledge if shes cute or not. Its impossible to go through a day now because im thinking about it so much, im afraid every day because its like when a sign on a door says dont open the door, you want to open it right? This makes it impossible. I love this girl so much though, and i'd do anything for her to stay. I dont wanna lose her because she really is everything to me. I dont know how to handle this...

[Joss-eh-lime]

she asks you : are you hurting me?
in those words?

[Castaway]

she asks you : are you hurting me?
in those words?

I'm confused with that part too.

Anyways, you should go see her in person asap. So what if it's an hour away.
I'm sure the long distance relationship is just worrying her and she doesn't want to be cheated on or something. You need to get her to trust you. She also needs to face the fact that you check out other girls. If other girls mean nothing to you, tell her that.