girlfriend troubles Options

[clahky]

I've been dating this girl for over 2 years. Ever since i met her she's been amazing, shes the one girl i want to be with for the rest of my life. For a bit of time, she's been asking me if im "hurting" her and i can't lie to her because i love her too much. A long time ago i looked at other girls naked, not for a while now, and the other day she got me to admit that i occasionally check out other girls at school. I go to college and i sort of subconsciously look at other girls, i dont necessarily check them out and think about their bodies, i just look sometimes without noticing. Now she asks me everyday if ive hurt her, and i cant help but say yes because i see a girl walking down the street and i might acknowledge if shes cute or not. Its impossible to go through a day now because im thinking about it so much, im afraid every day because its like when a sign on a door says dont open the door, you want to open it right? This makes it impossible. I love this girl so much though, and i'd do anything for her to stay. I dont wanna lose her because she really is everything to me. I dont know how to handle this...

[LittleMissSunshi...]

i believe your stressing yourself out too much on this. yes, it's natural for you too look at girls. i'm pretty sure she looked at a boy down the street too (just assuming, don't take it intentionally). i can see how you "hurt" her, by looking at other girls.. but in reality, that's like saying every girl you look at even if they're your friend as in talking to them. you "hurt" her.. and i don't think your giving yourself a chance to think it over. talk to her, and tell her that you don't mean to, be reasonable about it to her. your girlfriend should understand what your trying or mean to say since you guys have been together for 2 years. i don't think she'll give up on someone who really loves her (;!

don't stress about it, just talk, and tell her that you don't mean too. good luck ^__^