girlfriend troubles Options

[clahky]

I've been dating this girl for over 2 years. Ever since i met her she's been amazing, shes the one girl i want to be with for the rest of my life. For a bit of time, she's been asking me if im "hurting" her and i can't lie to her because i love her too much. A long time ago i looked at other girls naked, not for a while now, and the other day she got me to admit that i occasionally check out other girls at school. I go to college and i sort of subconsciously look at other girls, i dont necessarily check them out and think about their bodies, i just look sometimes without noticing. Now she asks me everyday if ive hurt her, and i cant help but say yes because i see a girl walking down the street and i might acknowledge if shes cute or not. Its impossible to go through a day now because im thinking about it so much, im afraid every day because its like when a sign on a door says dont open the door, you want to open it right? This makes it impossible. I love this girl so much though, and i'd do anything for her to stay. I dont wanna lose her because she really is everything to me. I dont know how to handle this...

[tokyo-rose]

Now she asks me everyday if ive hurt her, and i cant help but say yes because i see a girl walking down the street and i might acknowledge if shes cute or not.

That's natural for anyone to do, whether they are single or taken. Your girlfriend can't fault you for that. Just because you're committed to her doesn't mean that you're not allowed to look at other girls.