Who Would Be Consider More "Gay"? Options

[Tung]

After watching Harold and Kumar 2 again for the 10th time, that part where they get locked up in jail, and about to get their cockmeat sandwiches got me thinking. Remember the fat white guy is like "Nothing gay about getting your dick sucked! You're the ones who's gay for sucking my dick!!"

So let's say two straight guys were to do this. They had a choice to decide who would be giving/receiving. So Guy A sucks Guy B's dick. Who is more gay? The guy receiving, or Guy B who is giving.

[hi-C]

Come on, what self-respecting straight guy would let another guy NEAR their cock? To say that they're just receiving it and not giving it isn't much of a justification.

I dunno. Prison makes you desperate. It's also a way of showing superiority. Even in non-prison homosexual relationships there's dichotomy between the more submissive (bottoms) and the more aggressive (tops). I know from reading anthropological studies of Brazilian transvestites (don't ask) that when they are the ones doing the penetrating, they're seen as more "straight" than the guys they f**k.

[mipadi]

Even in non-prison homosexual relationships there's dichotomy between the more submissive (bottoms) and the more aggressive (tops). I know from reading anthropological studies of Brazilian transvestites (don't ask) that when they are the ones doing the penetrating, they're seen as more "straight" than the guys they f**k.

This is actually quite similar to the culture of ancient Greece. Contrary to popular belief, homosexuality wasn't really "accepted" across all of Greece; for example, Spartans found homosexuality to be distasteful. What is most interesting, though, is the Athenian view on homosexuality, or sex in general. In Athens, the role of the individuals engaging in sex was important; the person who was penetrated was seen as inferior to the person doing the penetrating. Thus, women and the receivers of homosexual sex were both seen as inferiors to the men who did the penetrating (since, of course, women were always penetrated during sex).