Should I tell him? |
 Sep 20 2008, 05:57 PM
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SO.. I like this guy and I don't know whether I should just tell him or not. If he doesn't like me back, I don't want to ruin our friendship.
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Sep 20 2008, 06:38 PM
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 Mais je ne l'aime pas Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
This happened to me once.
I called my really good friend and left a message telling him that I liked him a lot. He returned my message and told me that he just wanted to stay friends. It was a little hurtful since it was my first rejection and my first time actually professing my feelings for somebody. But since then, our friendship never skipped a beat, and we're still very close friends. We even joke about it. The important thing is to know whether or not your friendship with him is mature and strong enough to move past the awkwardness that may come of you telling him your feelings. |
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laelaekeke Should I tell him? Sep 20 2008, 05:57 PM
Tomates wait...I thought you already had a boyfriend? Sep 20 2008, 05:58 PM laelaekeke we broke up, like.. a couple months ago. Sep 20 2008, 06:00 PM Tomates aw. Im sorry to hear that. Anyways i would be flir... Sep 20 2008, 06:01 PM laelaekeke It's okay >< I'm flirting with him n... Sep 20 2008, 06:04 PM Tomates a lot of guys are like that. They just can be comp... Sep 20 2008, 06:05 PM laelaekeke I'm scared that it'll totally screw up our... Sep 20 2008, 06:05 PM Tomates i know what you mean there. I had a crush on my be... Sep 20 2008, 06:07 PM laelaekeke what if it goes the wrong way though? Sep 20 2008, 06:09 PM Tomates well, thats the part thats unknown. If it doesnt w... Sep 20 2008, 06:12 PM laelaekeke i mean like.. He's the kind of guy who freaks ... Sep 20 2008, 06:13 PM Tomates oh. Well what i would do is see if your friends ca... Sep 20 2008, 06:15 PM karmakiller If he's the type of person that doesn't re... Sep 20 2008, 07:04 PM laelaekeke yeah, he's the guy who isn't open at all. ... Sep 20 2008, 10:31 PM
manic If you can trust yourself to deal with rejection, ... Sep 20 2008, 10:35 PM |
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