I'm insanely jealous for no apparent reason Options

[MrStrife]

I started dating and can't help but feel angry at the fact that she still talks to her exes. Yeah I understand she can't just diss them like that, but wtheck am I supposed to do? If it's insecurity, then that sucks because I think I'm cool. Well... maybe that's an insecurity by itself. lol. I don't know why I'm jealous.

[espressive]

yeah, i know what you mean. i get jealous about stuff like that too, but i know i'm just being stupid so i just shake it off at the end of the day. although i agree that jealousy is indicative of insecurities on some level, i also think it just goes to show you how much you care about that person & your relationship - which is a good thing. just be smart about how you handle your jealousy and i think you'll be fine.

think of it this way though - it's a good thing that she's on good terms with her exes, because it shows a sense of maturity in how the relationship ended. you don't want a girl that will go crazy on you when you break up right? (knock on wood!) plus, there was obviously something wrong with the relationship for them to break up, so i don't think she'll want to fall back on that. they're called her exes for a reason and she's with you for a reason, so just keep your cool & don't worry so much!