my bofriend doesnt treat me like his girlfriend. Options

[xiiduckies]

me and my boyfriend has been going out for almost 6 months. The 4 3 months everything was going great we meet up everyday after school and hang out go on dates. we wouldnt acknowledge each other in school because we were afraid that they will tese us for ever. sure i hated it alittle but still i couldnt only think about my self right? so i just went with the plan. other then that everything was great, i loved my relationship with my boyfriend. but after summer vacation started he started to treat me unfairly and all crappy. txt'ed him one day during summer and he sent me a txt saying oh i dont want to talk to you everday. i felt very heartbroken after i got this txt. and this was the time i really need him because something was going on in my personal life and i needed someone to be there for me. i felt like breaking down, i didnt call him for 1 month and bare with whatever was going on in my life alone.so when schoo started he became more distant; those times we hung out after school was gone because he has to go to prep school in order to get into a speicalized high school and i understand this because i have to go to prep school also. but then when i asked him to come to my birthday party he said he couldnt come cause he had to go too prep school i was fine with that, but when i asked my other guy friend he changed his prep school time to 9~12 just to come to my party. this part i couldnt understand. how could my guy friend change his schedual just to come and my boyfriend cant. that doesnt make sense for me. im not sure if it does to people reading this but it doesnt. now he doesnt call me we dont hang out we dont acknowledge each other in school, so i feel like im not his girlfriend anymore and im not even sure if he likes me still; so im thinking about breaking up with him. but at the same time i still love him. what should i do? i had a problem like this before and after i broke up with my ex i regreted it. i dont want to break up with him and regret it and i dont want to break his heart if he still loves me back and hes just not showing it. PLEASE HELP! i need advice.

[imperfectionistx]

You two don't even seem like friends, let alone bf/gf. Clearly, if he's avoiding you, like everyone else said, he isn't going to do the right thing and help you mutually end it, he'll just keep making you feel like crap in hopes that you'll do the dirty work and break up with him, leaving YOU with all the remorse and regret. But don't feel that way. End it-- he seems like a total jerk. After all, you're still young and there's plenty of time for you to find the best relationship for you!

edit//oops just read the last post :P Well I'd say the most important thing now is that you don't go back to him if he ever comes crawling back to you! I've been in this situation many times, so I understand how you feel.