Arguments?, ever had any? |
Arguments?, ever had any? |
Sep 11 2008, 09:24 PM
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![]() na-nancy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,179 |
okay, the reason i am posting a topic like this is because
me and my boyfriend for 6 months now ( we were best friends for 2 years before dating) have never never ever had an argument at all. I mean, seriously. It just popped in my mind today when my friend asked about us and asked if we have any arguments and i answered her "no, not really" and the thought's been in my head since. But, it's kinda weird, but is it....i can't find the word, is it okay to not have any arguments? I mean we get along all the time and i can talk to him about almost anything, haha. We're easy to talk to and never have much disagreements and think alike at times. It's just a little funny to me now that I think about it. but tell me what you think. |
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Sep 12 2008, 10:22 PM
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I read an article once that said how it is unhealthy if couples do not argue IF they are not expressing things that are bothering them, even if they are small things. It shows that the communication is weak and the problem will never be fixed. If a couple is repeatedly arguing over the same topic, that shows the conflict isnt being resolved and thats a problem.
But, id say that if you guys really have nothing bothering you and you're not bottling anything up then thats great:) As for my boyfriend and me, we have been together for just about 19 months and we have had maybe 1 or 2 like "fights" but they always are resolved in a couple hours tops. We bicker about stuff, a lot of people say we're like a married couple, and honestly I don't take that offensively. Our bickering means nothing to us, it doesnt hurt our relationship at all. It just shows how comfortable we are around each other. |
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na-nancy Arguments? Sep 11 2008, 09:24 PM
mipadi Nah, it's fine. My girlfriend and I have been... Sep 11 2008, 09:43 PM
espressive yeah i was thinking the same thing when i was dati... Sep 11 2008, 10:05 PM
TheNewCancer89 Ha, that's funny because when I first read the... Sep 12 2008, 01:30 AM
towntown2 The absence of arguments isn't bad.
That proba... Sep 12 2008, 10:14 AM
brooklyneast05 we argue like everyday, but it's not really th... Sep 12 2008, 10:30 AM
ect I just read this article in the newspaper about ho... Sep 12 2008, 05:17 PM
AyeVickaye Dengs. You guys must get along pretty well...anywa... Sep 12 2008, 05:42 PM![]() ![]() |