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Arguments?, ever had any?
na-nancy
post Sep 11 2008, 09:24 PM
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okay, the reason i am posting a topic like this is because
me and my boyfriend for 6 months now ( we were best friends for 2 years before
dating) have never never ever had an argument at all. I mean, seriously.
It just popped in my mind today when my friend asked about us and asked if
we have any arguments and i answered her "no, not really" and the thought's been in my head
since. But, it's kinda weird, but is it....i can't find the word, is it okay to not have any arguments? I mean we get along all the time and i can talk to him about almost anything, haha. We're easy to talk to and never have much disagreements and think alike at times. It's just a little funny to me now that I think about it.
but tell me what you think.
 
 
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Becks539
post Sep 12 2008, 10:22 PM
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I read an article once that said how it is unhealthy if couples do not argue IF they are not expressing things that are bothering them, even if they are small things. It shows that the communication is weak and the problem will never be fixed. If a couple is repeatedly arguing over the same topic, that shows the conflict isnt being resolved and thats a problem.

But, id say that if you guys really have nothing bothering you and you're not bottling anything up then thats great:)

As for my boyfriend and me, we have been together for just about 19 months and we have had maybe 1 or 2 like "fights" but they always are resolved in a couple hours tops. We bicker about stuff, a lot of people say we're like a married couple, and honestly I don't take that offensively. Our bickering means nothing to us, it doesnt hurt our relationship at all. It just shows how comfortable we are around each other.
 

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